How did we become the swingers next door?

One of the most interesting questions we love asking and answering when meeting new people is:


 'So, how did you get into the Swinging Scene?'


For us it began in the many hours of phone calls, emails, texting and msn chats; we were long distance for the majority of the first six months of our relationship, and we are both vivacious talkers! Phone sex became a big part of our sex life along with cam sex, text-sex and cyber sex.


One of my favourite surprises for MrS was to take risqué pics and post them on UK exhibitionists for him to find; I also found that it was a great place for a sneaky ego boost as all the posters are friendly, supportive and respectful.


From here it became a fairly small step on to attending regular exhibitionist parties where a lot of the attendees were also regular swingers. I distinctly remember a couple who we met at a party in Derby who we were dying to play with but just didnt know how to make the first move! How far we have come since then!


We then started reading, watching and talking about group sex, swaps, threesomes and moresomes. During sex I (MsS) am very talkative and tend to mutter pure filth just before I catapult into orgasm which generally pushes MrS over the edge as well!


Once we had made the decision to dabble, we discussed who, where and how we wanted to play... 


We decided on a MFM as I have always fantasised about having more than one guy at once so a threesome was perfect. We chose a perfect gent from the UK-Ex site, and had a fantastic, mind-blowing experience; since then we havent looked back!


We now regularly attend swingers nights at several Midlands clubs, travel and occasionally accommodate couples / singles / groups when it takes our fancy. 





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